tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1271437971563421813.post6115885822365957775..comments2023-10-09T11:12:21.721-07:00Comments on Barren Babe: Olympics Withdrawal & Possible MIL VisitBarren Babehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03667567786884954717noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1271437971563421813.post-132787654606057912010-03-06T19:03:21.694-08:002010-03-06T19:03:21.694-08:00Put your foot down. Your clock still ticks and sh...Put your foot down. Your clock still ticks and she'll be around for God knows how long. You set the times that you can handle her coming and don't worry about hurting any feelings. It's we women who end up stressing over the cleaning, groceries, and trying to make everyone comfortable when they visit. Don't feel guilty about making sure that your needs are met.<br /><br />Five more embryos! Put those little buggers in and lets get cooking! It doesn't cost any extra to put them all in as apposed to only one does it? I say go for it!<br /><br />Tmaxandzuzuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10586037097943565976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1271437971563421813.post-28335083088038646352010-03-03T18:29:37.206-08:002010-03-03T18:29:37.206-08:00Oh, Barren Babe. I'm so sorry that this has be...Oh, Barren Babe. I'm so sorry that this has been so rough on you. Yes, the Olympics was such a great distraction ... but now it's back to real life. <br /><br />I think it's a good thing to schedule the in-law visit when it's best for you, mentally and physically. So I agree with everyone above ... stick to your guns and, although a "little white lie" to the in-laws is perfectly acceptable ... you really should continue to be honest with DH about what would be best for YOU. <br /><br />And speaking of YOU ... it's realllly important that you take care of YOU. Find a way to rouse yourself out of that deep valley and find something that will keep you ... not distracted, but ... I don't know, out and about? Oh, and remember to eat!! That's important also. <br /><br />Anyway, I know I'm rambling, but I'm wishing you the best and sending positive vibes your way. ((HUGS))ApronStringsEmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03563200889320214974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1271437971563421813.post-3999136710438822822010-03-03T16:07:33.137-08:002010-03-03T16:07:33.137-08:00Way to stand up for yourself? If you need a little...Way to stand up for yourself? If you need a little white lie to smooth this over, maybe DH can tell them that you're thinking of going away in May/June, so it would be best to plan for July/August. And maybe some dear friend of yours in another state could have a sudden emergency right around then?AmyGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09507868273451434948noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1271437971563421813.post-16645203501080392162010-03-03T14:21:28.110-08:002010-03-03T14:21:28.110-08:00Stick to your guns! You have given then ample time...Stick to your guns! You have given then ample time to choose from, and if they don't like those times they don't have to come at all. You need to not be stressed. Even if you're not cycling, that is your choice - good luck with it!<br /><br />Sorry you aren't inspired by shopping. Me too, I feel like this last failure was a sucker punch to my soul (even though it is not nearly as traumatic as your m/c). I'm not interested in anything, but I bought a bunch of puzzle books and jigsaws and I just keep mindlessly busy doing those. My dh thinks I'm going mad. But it keeps me from thinking about things - hoping you find your way through the pain to an easier place.musicmakermommahttp://musicmakermomma.livejournal.comnoreply@blogger.com