Tuesday, March 25, 2008

Facebook Heartache

Alright, I admit that I'm okay with not being a mother, but sometimes it hurts when you discover that someone else within your social circle is pregnant. A couple of days ago I was on Facebook snooping around at friends' pages when I discovered that someone is pregant. It's like getting kicked in the stomach...over and over again...and again. Just not ready to be happy for other pregnancies at the moment. Not just yet...maybe soon. Now I must remember not to be so inquisitive when it comes to Facebook. Stick to Scrabulous and all will be well.


Deathstar said...

Just wanted to let you know that it takes a long time before you become alright with hearing about other women's pregnancies. Especially if you're still trying to conceive. Even though I'm not trying to conceive anymore, I was working when I heard someone take a call from his daughter who had just began labour. And I thought no one is going to get a call about me in that way. Mmmm.

Anonymous said...

I am barren and unhealthy and only 26. I have been trying for years to get pregnant and I have been unable. It kills me. All my friends and family are moving on with their families and its like I am frozen. Now my best friend since childhood just found out she is pregnant and it has been hell for me, knowing that things will never be the same. I know how you feel, it's like I don't wanna even leave my house, because I don't wanna see any families. Just know you are not alone